Jay grew up on a farm in Oklahoma, where he developed a passion for the outdoors, often fishing and exploring nature. He excelled in football but felt a deeper calling to serve his country, leading him to enlist in the military. From February 1969 to June 1970, Jay served as an infantryman in Vietnam. His bravery and dedication earned him commendations such as the Purple Heart, an Air Medal, multiple Commendation Medals, and the Combat Infantryman’s Badge, culminating in a promotion to Sergeant.

After returning home, Jay pursued a college education while continuing to play football. He dedicated 30 years to education, ultimately retiring as a Principal in 2004. Throughout his career, he found relaxation in the outdoors, enjoying adventures with friends.

In 2022, Jay discovered The FEW, an organization dedicated to supporting POWs, those awarded Valor, and the often-overlooked Veterans of Vietnam. He joined a challenging elk hunt in Montana with ten other veterans, an experience that left a profound impact on him. Inspired to give back, Jay began volunteering with The FEW, eager to support other Exceptional Warriors. He looks forward to future adventures, sharing his journey and camaraderie with fellow veterans.